Mine your Business

Train up a child in the way he should go and when he gets old,he will not depart from it,
thats what the bible say.Parents, kids are like sponge they take everything in and when you squeeze them they spit eveything out,I know there are some hard ass kids out there.I know "YOU CAN MAKE THE CHILD BUT NOT THEIR MINDS",but it all starts at home ,parents it all starts with you.
My neighbours have some kids between the ages of twelve and five ,lord give me strenght ,they are the worst I have seen in years ,they are up before everyone else and goes to sleep later than every one else,sometimes I wonder if they ever sleeps .The F word is frequently heard, I even heard one brother telling the other"mommy say get your ass up stairs before she slap the F out of you.What the hell is going on here parents .Are we so into ourselve we are not seeing the monsters we are creating,and yet we claim to love them.I do have a child of my own so I guess the motherly instinct is here, thirteen years now,I am not judging anyone all am saying to you who read my post, be the best you can be and lead by example and your kids will follow

Damn it ,I hate Goodbyes

My Dad is leaving to go home in the morning and its driving out of my mind
but what can I do,after spending two to four hours with him at night
because of my damn job,I guess I can't complain, I got to eat .When spending time with the people you love time go so fast,but what can I say "Time waits on no one"So am going to take him to the bus station tommorrow and he will be on his merry way. Hope he had a good couple of weeks knowing I wasn't home most at the time,I hope the stores and shops I carried him made up for that .My best moment was me and my husband coming home from work and knocking on our own door and having it open by him,just hearing him asking me why I reached home so late and giggling saying he had to buy a belt for me ,really made my day.And you know what he did that every night since he been at my house.I know he was just bored out his mind ,anyway I know he loves me and the time we did spend together as short as it may be ,Just that second, each time he open that door will give me strenght until I see him again,I guess thats one more memory for the books.

Why Women,Why?

Today I went to Pathmart to pick up something to cook and to my surprise two females were screaming at each other ,loud enough for the whole world to hear,why do we as women belittle ourselve and talk each other women bad?when we often know the man is the probelm.
Women,Women,Women know this, if a woman knows that the man she is messing with is married and she still choose to deal with him, she's a tramp and disrespectful, especially if she knows you personally or not .If she doesn't know, you can't blame her ,but make her aware of the situation and if she still choose to be with him claiming she inlove ,beat her ass,not for taking your husband but for knowing who you are and still disrespecting you.If she is woman enough she walk away and its up to you now to stay and work it out or leave his ass.Now it's different with your husband, he is a dog, if you want to clean his mess up as he shit all over the place good luck to you.It will take a while to train him ,but if his bowels was lose before you were in the picture most likely you will have to continue walking with the bag to pick up after he shits all over.